Dildos are enormously popular, and there are even findings that indicate that the sex toys already existed in the romans era. The colourful, dazzling and above all horny world of dildos is huge and significantly expands your sexual fun. Whether alone or with your lover, toys are part and parcel of a well-equipped gay man. But with so much to choose from, it’s not easy to make a decision. Should it be small and compact, or do you prefer the XXL format? We give you an overview and tell you which dildo is the best model for your (or his) ass!
The right measurements are crucial – not every ass is made for XXL
When choosing your lover, the size of the dick plays a subordinate role, the whole guy has to fit. However, when it comes to a dildo, the size is important and at last you can use it as the main criterion. Some people say that real men always need a big cock up their ass, but that’s not true. A small model can have its advantages, especially if your experience is not yet that extensive.
Length is a criterion that you should choose according to your personal needs. If you are anal and need deep stimulation, the dildo can be 20 centimetres or more. If you are just starting out, a smaller model is perfectly adequate. Many gays prefer realistic dildos that are especially close to a real cock. They’re perfect if you need a little more practice before your first passive anal fuck.
The size of your dildo has a completely different meaning, because it is crucial for the feeling during insertion. Your rosette is quite hard, but also able to stretch massively. Again, beginners can go for a narrower circumference, but if you want XXL stretching, it can be a bit more. If you want to make the right choice, do the sexy finger test! Grab a lube, rub it on your fingers and anus, and then find out how thick it is that makes you feel completely full. Of course, you can also do the test with your lover, so sensual fun is guaranteed.
The Monster Cock
As an anal-savvy gay, you have the full range of XXL dildos at your disposal. They are so deep that they can catapult you to cloud nine. It is important that you use such giant models safely and thus avoid the risk of injury. Of course, this also applies if you use them on your lover’s ass. Safety first is the motto, so you should never be without lubricant, for example.
Before you enjoy the deep experience, make sure you keep things clean. A rectal lavage will help with insertion, as nothing will stick and the dildo will slide in. Clean hands are also a must, and you should clean your toy after every use anyway. An absolute no-go is to change his ass into yours without thoroughly disinfecting the toy first. It is even better to use a rubber if there is a suitable size for your monster dildo.
Quick guide
The following points will help you to use your XXL pleasure dispenser safely:
- The right location: Ensure a quiet environment and that no one disturbs you. Turn off your mobile phone and have the tube of lube ready. Small tip: Wear a plug the day before and prepare your anus for the especially great pleasure.
- Take your time: Normally it is always said that time is money, but in this case more time means more pleasure. Take the opportunity to get in the mood before you really insert the XXL dildo. A hot porn film or the hot pictures of your lover can serve as a jerk-off template. You can also sniff a round of poppers if you can’t physically relax. They help ease the pain and prepare your ass perfectly.
- Listen to your feelings: In porn, the dildo seems to be pushed effortlessly into the rectum and everything looks so easy. In practice, it often feels different. Only half of it is in and you already feel completely exhausted. That’s okay, because your vibes are crucial to the pleasure. You don’t have to push it all the way in just because it’s big. Do it the way you like it. Whether slowly moving, hard thrusting or just quiet, everything is allowed when fucking yourself with a dildo, whatever makes you happy.
Fuck your partner with a dildo – take his needs seriously
A dildo is the perfect toy to fuck your partner to seventh heaven with. The sight of his rosette slowly stretching and enclosing the material of the pleasure stick is too cool. If you fuck yourself, you can listen to your own feelings. If you’re working someone else’s ass, always pay attention to their facial expressions and gestures. Ask your lover to communicate clearly with you beforehand. If he doesn’t like something, he can say so openly and you of course end the game immediately. This will be difficult if you have put a gag in your slave’s mouth so that he can whimper to the maximum. In such cases, make a gesture beforehand with which he signals to you that his limit has been reached.
Little dildo customer – here you get to know the horniest gay toys
They all have one thing in common: They are for the ass! The choice of dildos is actually so large that we would like to introduce you to the most popular pleasure dispensers. You can then find out what suits you and your backside in a sensual self-experiment:
- The suction cup dildo: You are an absolute lover of the riding position and don’t want to do without a lover? A suction cup dildo is attached to a smooth surface (e.g. the tiled floor in the bathroom) and you’re ready to go. Settle down and enjoy the feeling of the hard pole.
- The Strap-On: You want to penetrate your lover with your XL monster? A strap-on dildo gives you the opportunity to have any cock you want. It’s perfect for fucking your partner or letting them fuck you.
- The double dildo: Two butts and one dildo? That works with the snake-like double dildo, which you can push into your rosettes at the same time. The hands remain free and so you have perfect play possibilities and can milk each other’s cocks.
- Glass and metal dildos: Most toys are made of silicone or plastic. Glass and metal models are particularly suitable for temperature play. In the fridge, they get pretty damn frosty, which can make for a nice skin effect during fucking.
- Vibrators: A cock replica is not enough for you? A vibrator not only gives you a full anal fill, but also vibrating stimulation. If you’re into prostate massages, vibrators are a highlight.
- The fisting dildo: You don’t want the little finger, but the whole hand? Fisting dildos are replicas of hands or fists and the ideal tool for self fisting. If you’ve always wanted to know how a fist feels in your ass, you’ll be well served with this.
Summary: Dildos are part of the gay lifestyle – here is something for everyone
To live the real gay lifestyle, you simply need a lot of dildos in your bedroom. Whether for a solo fuck or together with your partner, they will expand your range of fucks. Take your time when choosing the right helpers, whether small or large, you decide all by yourself.
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