Have you ever heard of the gag reflex? If you like giving deep blowjobs (deep throats), you may have experienced it first hand. This is the natural excitement reflex that occurs when something goes too deep into the throat. In deep throat, this is the erect penis of the person you are using. If you can control the gag reflex, you will find out when you read on.
Gag reflex – what to do!
The gag reflex is a natural reaction of the body that occurs when something goes too far down the throat or pharynx. This can be particularly disturbing when deep throating during oral sex. But there are ways to control the gag reflex and make the experience enjoyable. In this article, you will learn how to manage and possibly reduce the gag reflex to increase sexual pleasure.
Deep throat without the anger reflex – The master class of blowjobs
No gay man does not lick his lips with pleasure when he imagines giving a deep blowjob to his partner. After all, stimulating the male penis glans or even the whole cock is one of the most pleasurable forms of satisfaction. The most intense and powerful form of oral stimulation is the so-called deep throat. For this master class in blowjobs, however, you need a bit of training. Because you need to overcome the gag reflex.
What is the gag reflex anyway?
A brief look at the human anatomy shows how the gag reflex develops and which parts of our body are responsible for it. The gag reflex is triggered by a contraction of the back of the throat. Its purpose is to prevent foreign bodies from entering the airways. It thus assumes a quasi protective function that prevents us from choking, for example.
The wrath reflex is triggered when something touches the base of the tongue and the soft palate, especially the palatal ridges. Which is divided into two areas. The hard palate, which consists partly of bone, which is a rather unpleasant sensation for the penis during deep throat. The soft palate, on the other hand, consists of muscles and tissue structures covered with mucous membranes. This makes it softer and creates a pleasant sensation for the passing penis.
In the past, it was assumed that the gag reflex originated from the uvula. The two nerves located in the brain, the glossopharyngeal nerve and the vagus nerve, are mainly responsible for the stimulus.
Why is it important to turn off the gag reflex?
This has to do with the anatomy of the mouth and throat area. As well as the pleasure sensation of the person receiving the deep blowjob. The throat is much narrower than the mouth area. Which means that the stimulation through friction in the throat is stronger. This means that the deeper you take the penis, the more you stimulate the person whose best piece you are using orally.
For yourself, it also has a positive effect if you manage to switch off the gag reflex. The deeper you can swallow your partner’s penis, the more pleasure you give him and the more power you exert at that moment. If you can do a deep throat without a reflex of anger, you have reached the highest possible standard in oral sex and are considered by many men to be a professional.
It is an art to insert the glans into your soft palate, and you will soon realise that the connection between mouth and penis is an absolutely arousing sensation. The soft and tight walls of your throat around the throbbing glans can lead to an almost unearthly pleasure for both of you. The feeling of his pulse beating in your throat can create a maximum of pleasure and eroticism. However, this only works if you train the excitement reflex.
Can the gag reflex be repressed?
In principle, you can suppress the whimpering reflex or even switch it off completely. This works because the gag reflex is a so-called polysynaptic reflex. This means that it can be suppressed by a high degree of concentration or even completely eliminated by means of an extravagant release (Habituation). The gag reflex can also be strengthened with the help of sensitisation. There are various techniques and aids to train it away.
Toothbrushes as an “exercise tool”
Thankfully, your bathroom has everything you need to train off the gag reflex, namely a very simple toothbrush. You don’t even have to set aside extra practice time, but can use it every time you brush your teeth.
Start slowly and see how far you can move the toothbrush back down your throat without wincing. It won’t be long before you find the trigger point and start coughing and choking. Keep the head of the toothbrush in place, despite the coughing and choking. Both will only last for a few moments before the irritation and coughing slowly subside. This is normal because your body needs to realise that there is no danger. When you can hold the toothbrush head in place for about ten seconds without coughing or choking, gently brush the area for a few seconds.
Training like this takes a little time. Try to go further into the throat each day until you reach the soft palate. However, you should avoid brushing there because it can be painful. In time, the base of the tongue and palate will ideally become accustomed to the careful touches and the gag reflex will be absent or at least much weaker.
Training aid dildo
If the toothbrush is no longer enough for you, and you want to train with something that resembles a partner’s penis, you can also use a silicone or rubber dildo. It’s best to start with a small dildo and work your way up to the size that you can easily push deep down your throat during real Deep Throat.
In order for desensitisation to set in, you need to train slowly and over a long period of time. This whole process will take about a month. After that, the gag reflex should be suppressed so that you will be able to swallow even the longest erect penises down to their root.
This is how you trick the gag reflex during oral sex
When you practice deep throat for the first time, the gag reflex is instinctively activated. In this case, breathe calmly against it and, above all, start slowly. Let your partner know that you are a beginner, then he will not immediately ram his penis all the way into your throat. It is also helpful if you adopt a comfortable position. Many say that it is easiest to lie on the bed and let your head hang down over the edge of the bed. This stretches the throat and clears the way for the penis.
Also, you should relax your tongue. You know the gag reflex will come, so relax and set your mind to overcoming the gag reflex. It will help if you exhale through your nose while sliding the penis deeper into your throat. In addition, you can open the throat further with a blow once you feel his penis coming into contact with the wall of your throat.
Don’t forget to breathe
Of course, you have to be able to breathe during Deep Throat. The better equipped your partner is, the more difficult this can be. Try to breathe through your nose. You will be able to do this in the few seconds when he pulls his best stick straight out and then shoves it deep down your throat again.
If it doesn’t work, and you cramp up, just take regular breaks where you continue to pleasure him orally but don’t swallow his penis all the way. This will also give you time to relax your throat and concentrate on overcoming the gag reflex.
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