Although the term “BDSM forced ejaculation” may sound unpleasant or threatening to some, this BDSM practice of prostate massage is popular among BDSM enthusiasts. The aim of forced ejaculation is to elicit your lover’s hot sperm in a restrained state through BDSM forced ejaculation until it has all been extracted from you while you scream, whimper and tremble. Especially if you keep your willing sub in a chaste position, and he is therefore unable to satisfy himself, prostate massage offers a wonderful alternative way to tantalise him – through forced prostate milking.
The BDSM forced ejaculation makes this possible without the sub actively having sex or masturbating. But how exactly is this done? Prostate massage can also trigger orgasms that are far more intense than the usual climax. However, desemination without orgasms is also possible, which is an advantage. Remember, however, that seminal fluid can accumulate in the chastity belt during penis milking, which should always be removed after the BDSM forced desemination for hygienic reasons.
What is the purpose of forced ejaculation?
The aim of BDSM forced ejaculation is to completely empty the prostate so that no more seminal fluid escapes. In some cases, this may also be desired to allow your willing and helpless sub to have a ruined or dry orgasm. Depending on how much he has behaved. However, prostate milking is also about demonstrating power and emphasising your own position within the BDSM role play. If there are unjustified demands from the submissive partner in the hierarchy, desexing can be used as a form of punishment and discipline. By eliciting so many orgasms until the pain of pleasure is barely bearable, your sub will realise: “So you want to jerk off horny? Then why don’t you try it, but you’re completely empty now!”
Precautions if you want to inseminate your man
When forcibly deseminating your man with BDSM, as with all hot sex adventures, it is important to prepare yourself and pay attention to certain things. These tips can help you to ensure that you both have a safe and hot experience:
- Make sure your fingers are short and clean. Long or sharp nails can lead to unpleasant injuries.
- Wash your hands thoroughly before playing
- consider wearing a latex glove when using your finger for stimulation. This will minimise the risk of infection, especially for others.
- Empty your bladder and bowels before playing. This can significantly increase comfort.
- Don’t skimp on lube. Anal play should always be slippery!
- Stop immediately if you feel pain. Pain is a sign that something is wrong.
- Seek medical advice if you have any concerns about your health.
And of course there are also things you should avoid:
- Don’t put a lot of pressure on the central part of the prostate. This area can be very sensitive and strong pressure can lead to injury.
- Do not stimulate the prostate if you have prostate cancer. Massage could spread cancer cells to other parts of the body.
- Do not massage the prostate if you have acute prostatitis, as this can make the infection worse.
- Do not milk the prostate if you have calculi (small stones) in the prostate. These could scratch or tear the gland.
- Be always gentle when inserting your toy or finger. Brutality has no place here.
What are the advantages and disadvantages of forcible male ejaculation?
As with other sex practices, there are advantages and disadvantages to BDSM forced emasculation.
Advantages:
- The chaste sub experiences an ejaculation without being sexually satisfied.
- Semen retention is avoided.
- The Master can torment the chastity belt with anal practices until ejaculation occurs.
- As the sub is not really satisfied, his sexual arousal is maintained.
Disadvantages:
- With some chastity belts, the forced removal of semen can take a while.
- If the sphincter is not relaxed, prostate milking can be uncomfortable. It is therefore important that the sub relaxes well. (An anal spray or cream to relax the sphincter can help with this).
- Some men find the forced release during BDSM too “dirty” or unpleasant.
Prejudices about BDSM forced ejaculation
There are still many prejudices and misconceptions about Forced BDSM that urgently need to be dispelled. Forced ejaculation does not necessarily involve finger penetration and can be explored by people of any sexual identity. Any man can have an ejaculation, regardless of whether he is aroused or not.
Another misconception is that a man must be aroused in order to ejaculate. In fact, ejaculation can occur without arousal, especially if a chastity device is used. It is important to note that ejaculation does not automatically lead to satisfaction. In fact, the feeling after ejaculation can be compared more to incomplete masturbation.
There is also the misconception that BDSM forced desemination is pathological. As long as it is not practised regularly, it is not harmful to health, although it is recommended that it should not be practised on a daily basis, as regular forced masturbation can lead to an enlargement of the prostate, which should be avoided if possible. Through better education and understanding, the prejudices and misconceptions about forced semen removal can be eliminated.
Prostate forced milking method
In order to get his ejaculation out of his body through your hot BDSM forced ejaculation, it is necessary to stimulate the prostate. This can even be achieved with a chastity belt. The prostate gland is located in the pelvic area, between the erectile tissue and the bladder. The Dom, equipped with latex gloves and some anal lubricant, penetrates the sub’s anus with one or more fingers. As soon as you have discovered the prostate of yourself or your sex partner, you may ask yourself: What now?
Start stretching and relaxing his anal muscles by making circular movements with your finger (or a sex toy) to make it easier to stimulate the prostate. After he’s open to you, gently and carefully move your finger back and forth, always applying light pressure to the prostate. But don’t pull your finger or toy completely out of the anus. Your movements should start just above the prostate.
Prostate stimulation: techniques for intense pleasure
If you’re using a toy with a handle, you may find that it’s more effective to rock the toy back and forth instead of thrusting. This allows you to achieve internal stimulation directly on the prostate and stimulation through the perineum at the same time.
Firmly squeezing the perineum during orgasm can provide additional stimulation of the prostate. This could lead to a “dry” orgasm, which can even lead to multiples! If you’re aiming for this orgasmic experience, you might want to leave the penis – his or yours – untouched during forced prostate milking. Some men can experience several dry orgasms in this way.
Alternatively, you can combine BDSM forced ejaculation with giving oral sex. To do this, kneel down in front of him and start giving him a blowjob. At the same time, penetrate him from behind and stimulate his prostate. Another option: suck on his testicles while you perform the forced juicing.
Try out these techniques with the tip of your finger:
- Circular movements
- Light tapping
- Moving back and forth or rubbing sideways
Tips for desemination
For a more pleasant BDSM forced desemination, similar to anal sex, you can be spotless your rectum as a chastity/sub beforehand. Several anal rinses can help with this, and there are practical anal douches for anal rinsing that can be useful.
During the prostate massage, the chaste sub can also be sexually stimulated, for example by wearing nipple clamps. This additional stimulation can accelerate and intensify the forced emission process.
If anal stretching with fingers is perceived as uncomfortable, the insertion and wearing of an anal butt plug can be considered. After wearing them for around 10 minutes, the sphincter muscle will become accustomed to the stretching and the forced release will be much more comfortable.
In order to ensure relaxed muscles in the anal area, it is advisable to maintain a room temperature of at least 23 degrees. A pleasantly warm air environment ensures that the muscles can relax well and do not cramp up too quickly.
What you need to bear in mind when deseeding
BDSM forced desemination is not an unusual practice, but rather a varied way to live out your fantasies. Prostate massage causes the submissive partner to ejaculate, but is not fully satisfied. This leads to him remaining more aroused in the long term and becoming more obedient. Forced ejaculation therefore offers the BDSM master an opportunity to demonstrate his dominant superiority.
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