Originally, the idea of chastity was a concept originating from religion, which was intended to curb the sex drive. However, the libido itself is not inhibited at all, only the release is a long time coming. Chastity is a popular form of BDSM, but can also be performed independently.
The disadvantage is that you alone are responsible for ensuring that you actually follow the rules. Can you do it? We’ll not only tell you why chastity is such a great way to play, but also how you can get off to the perfect start.
Why some gays are so into chastity
Look at him, your little slave. There he is with a hard pipe, and although he would love to cum, he lets you put a chastity belt on him. Voluntarily? Exactly that! It’s mainly the feeling of power that makes these games so hot. As the dominant partner, you take control of his climax. You do this not only in an oral way, but also practically. By denying him access to his cock, he has no way of breaking your rules.
Tip: A great concept for a long-distance relationship! Before your lover leaves again, you lock his cock in a penis. Whether he wants to or not – if he wants to be milked, he has to come to you!
Experienced men rely on chastity because they have recognised the benefits of prolonged chastity for themselves. It’s not just the power of the dome that causes dripping glans. It is also the increased arousal that leads to a gigantic moment when orgasm is eventually allowed. As a dom, you alone are responsible for deciding when your pleasure slave has earned this moment.
Prohibition or clear boundaries? How to integrate it into your bedroom behaviour
If you’re just starting out, or you want to keep yourself chaste, clear rules will suffice. For example, set yourself a time limit for how long you won’t masturbate or forbid your lover to climax. This tactic only works if you really trust your slave. Otherwise, he has the opportunity to relieve himself in secret and pretend to be a good sub for you.
If you want to prevent this, and you have long since found your fun, lock his best piece in a penis and close it up tightly. Now he can be horny, but he won’t get to the climax. And now you come into play!
You didn’t want to just “lock him up” and then let the deadline pass, did you? Tease & denial is the magic word that will drive him even further out of his mind. Whether it’s horny wanking videos of you (for long-distance relationships) or erotic pillow talk, always make your sub hot wherever you are. The hornier he gets, the more difficult it will be for him to maintain chastity.
Important to note: When using a chastity belt for the first time, do not exceed the time limit unnecessarily. Plan for one day at first, but take the belt off if there is severe discomfort. It is also important that you pay attention to high quality. Sharp-edged toys lead to injuries and are a no-go!
Chastity in everyday life: what it brings and how it can be implemented
Experienced men sometimes leave their lover in suspense for a whole week or longer. Now you’re wondering how this is supposed to work in everyday life. After all, a chastity belt like this is quite cumbersome and so are the permanently fat balls. It’s not quite that bad, because the earlier steel belts used to inhibit sexual development have long since been replaced by alternatives that can be worn in everyday life.
Your lover can also wear his penis cage with lock in the office and will always be reminded who is the boss in the house. And if he needs to? That’s also possible. Depending on the penis or chastity belt, your lover can pee without any problems, but his cock remains locked up.
How you both benefit from it
Admit it, being celibate can be quite a pain. Once you’ve put your sub’s cock in your crotch, he may not even be able to get a hard-on, depending on the model. It’s even nastier when you shove your best piece into his mouth, and he sucks it passionately. His cock presses tightly against the structure of the knob, but he can’t do anything about it. For you as a dom, this is an absolutely awesome feeling, because you can squirt whenever you want and watch your little slave suffer.
It’s no less hot for him, because as a sub, he is submissive and is only too happy to give in to you and your decisions. The usual BDSM rules also apply here, of course. If your lover asks for the end of the game with their safeword, remove the penis immediately.
By the way, the fear of frustration is unfounded and usually has the opposite effect. You fear that your lover is angry with you, but instead he feels even more attracted to you. After all, he trusts you so much that you’re allowed to lock up his best piece and keep the key yourself. And at the latest, when you finally allow him to cum, he will be flooded with gratitude (and you with his cum).
Chastity as punishment – a valid means for discipline and order
If you actively live out your BDSM passion, chastity is a valid means of punishment. Imagine the horny little fucker has secretly jerked off to gay porn. You caught him, of course, and now he’s banned from jerking off. Since you know your lover very well, you realise that he would never stick to it. But as a dom, you have the reins in your hands, and that’s a good thing. Punish him and take away his favourite pastime, jerking off, for a while.
Be sure: It won’t be long before the naughty little slave mutates into a well-behaved sub. His balls are getting fatter and fatter, and only if he behaves himself will you get rid of him.
How to get started for newbies – Six quick tips for chastity
Does the thought of a penis make your cock swell, and you want to experience chastity with your lover? Then take note of the following quick tips, because they are crucial for your safety:
- Buy the right toys, his cock must have enough room and must not hurt.
- Expect sleeping problems, a chastity belt is a change of scenery.
- Get suitable clothes, tight jeans will put too much pressure on you
- Clean the chastity belt or penis cage thoroughly with a toy cleaner after each use.
- Cock hygiene is also important during chastity, especially after going to the toilet.
- A shower is necessary once a day, drying off with cotton wool wipes.
Tip: Do you want to keep yourself chaste? You can apply all of the above tips to yourself, but you’ll need a fair amount of self-discipline.
Conclusion: Chastity is a cool game with power feelings
You are the boss, and every day your partner mutates more and more into a will-less slave who longs for sexual release. How long will you keep up the game before pity makes you reach for the key? In a taboo-horny partnership, chastity is a great way to get the libido boiling and boost confidence. A little tip at the end: Start the experience on a weekend, as this will prevent frustration and initial carrying difficulties from being noticed by colleagues straight away.
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