Hanky codes, also known as bandana codes or flagging, have a long tradition in the LGBTQ+ community. They are a form of signalling used to indicate a person’s sexual interests and preferences. Before the age of the internet, they allowed for quick and easy information about one’s desires and preferences.
Each colour represents a specific sexual interest. And the placement of the cloth on the body indicates which role the person wants to play. For example, a person wearing a light blue scarf on the left side of the body indicates that they are interested in performing oral sex on another person. While a person wearing a hunting green scarf on the right side of the body indicates that they are interested in having sex outdoors.
What actually is the Hanky Code?
The origin of hanky codes is unclear, but they are believed to have originated from the Gold Rush settlers in mid-19th century San Francisco. In the absence of female dance partners, men used bandanas to indicate their roles as dominant or submissive.
During the 1970s and 1980s, the codes were widely used in the gay community, particularly in the US. They allowed for the quick indication of roles, erotic preferences, and fetishes through a simple colour system. This was a suitable way to express sexual interests when homosexuality faced stigma and criminalization. Bandanas were typically worn in pockets to signify preferences.
While hanky codes are still a cultural practice in the LGBTQ+ community, they are not universally understood or recognized. Today, people may choose to openly discuss their sexual interests and preferences instead. However, harnesses and other items carrying colours are still used to quickly communicate fantasies at Pride parades, gay events, and sex parties.
Please note that the codes may not be familiar to everyone within the LGBTQ+ community, and individuals may prefer open communication about their preferences.
The Hanky Codes – Basics
Hanky codes – Extensions
Hanky codes with materials
There are other hanky codes consisting of patterns and materials besides those mentioned above. However, for reasons of relevance and clarity, we have only listed the relevant ones above.
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