A variety of fisting positions makes it possible to adjust the penetration depth with millimetre precision. From the sling to the supine position or the doggie position. Discover the variety of possibilities to maximise your fisting experience.
“Fisting came with slings,” recalls Knut Koch, actor and author of the great autobiography Barfuß als Prinz (eng. Barefoot as a Prince). Although we ourselves still consider the sling to be the best fisting furniture, there are many who prefer other positions (not least because a sling is not always available). Even White and Silverstein explain as early as 1977 in their sex education book The Joy of Gay Sex: “Some lie on their backs with their legs up, others get on all fours.
Headfirst into happiness
Perhaps the best position is to lie down and then slowly sit on a vertical forearm. The ›best‹ in the sense of achieving something that seemed impossible before. It is perfectly legitimate to get comfortable during sex. This desire is especially obvious if you plan to be worked on for a longer period of time. But no happiness is truly pure, as the saying goes. All convenience has its disadvantages. We have compiled the most common positions here and will do our best to explain their advantages and disadvantages to you.
In the sling or on the bed
Sling is the name given to a funny fuck device. It may remind you a little of a hammock. But you actually lie in it, like women in a gynaecologist’s chair. This piece of furniture is not missing at any serious event, even saunas are usually equipped with it. It allows you to lie on your back and relax. While at the same time getting your legs out of the way.
This suspension also offers great advantages for the active person. He can sit down calmly in front of his desk and concentrate on his business with both hands. And as if that weren’t advantage enough. You can also attach all kinds of equipment to the suspension, for which tables would otherwise be needed. Last but not least, we would like to mention that in this position the active and the passive person can hold eye contact in a relaxed way and thus communicate wordlessly.
It may be hard to believe, but there is a crucial catch. If you want to penetrate deeper into the other person or if you want the other person to penetrate deeper into you, the hunched position is not the best position because the belly and organs such as the spleen and small intestine press on the large intestine and make penetration, although not dramatic, a little more difficult (depending on the circumference of the belly in the truest sense of the word). Consider control in fisting: while the passive person can communicate and react, their ability to contribute to the experience is limited, putting them at the patient’s mercy.
The doggy position
Alternatively, the dog stance. The passive gets down on all fours (on knees and hands or knees and elbows), which has some advantages. In contrast to the prone position described above, the passive person in this position can participate actively much more easily. For example, by pressing on the intruding hand or pulling back from it. He can also move to the left and right, curl or stretch his back and thus guide or direct the hand (the »active« partner). In this position, the abdomen »hangs« and with it the intestine and spleen. So that it is easier to penetrate deeper into the large intestine. Especially the unfit, find is easier. Last but not least, the back is less likely to hurt in this position. And even if it does, the passive person can loosen the tense muscles with a few movements.
Disadvantages: One of the most serious is that the two partners have no eye contact and have to rely on words, unless they are so attuned to each other that the active one feels exactly where the passive one wants him. One should not forget that especially in such instinctive feelings, words are not always at hand. A mirror at the head of the passive person can help. Sitting on the floor behind someone for a long time can also be very uncomfortable. It is easier if the other person kneels on the bed, then the active person can sit on a chair in front of them. But this way the lower legs stick up in the air without support, which will also not be a source of lasting pleasure. To make this position attractive for both of them, special sex furniture is required – the so-called buck.
The sideways position
This fisting position is especially recommended when it comes to making getting fucked palatable to beginners. The pelvic floor relaxes most easily in this position. So it makes sense to also try fisting in the side position. It’s certainly not bad for stretching, but if you want to get a whole hand through the sphincter, you have to lift the leg on top. A deeper penetration might be difficult because the active person would have to twist his wrist quite a bit. In addition, eye contact is not possible in this position, and control is not very good either. Why torture yourself when there are alternatives?
Position on the belly
A rather problematic position for many; the passive will have a problem keeping his head in this position for a long time, the fister has to struggle with having to tuck in around the stirrup leg. And if you have no orientation as a beginner, you will probably give up quickly.
When standing
Yes, the idea of posing as a passive person while being fisted from below in various fisting positions is not something that comes to mind at first. In fact, this is more of an advanced position. But it offers decisive advantages: As a passive person, you have full control over the penetration status of the hand. Yes, it is even easier to open up if you push yourself onto the hand. It may not be as comfortable for the active person to sit on the floor, but he can rest his elbow on his knee. Eye contact is difficult, but still possible. And if you do the show in front of a full-length mirror, you can check if your hair is in place.
Upside down – Fisting positions
It’s hard to believe: the Fist experience can be even better. If you want to reach the very deepest depths, hang your partner upside down by the legs. This is meant quite seriously. In this position, gravity helps to straighten the bowels, the organs are pulled downwards, and when the partner is relaxed, you can reach into him like into a shopping bag (slight exaggeration included). Eye contact is also possible.
The disadvantages are obvious: the passive person has no control in this position. And it is strenuous to stay upside down for a long time. High blood pressure patients should refrain from doing this anyway, and all others should not be left hanging like this for too long, lest they faint. In addition, you have to be able to install a suspension device. And finally, it is not easy to suspend someone alone like that. It is also clear that the passive person must already be well relaxed or have trained for a long time before the active person can penetrate him in this way, otherwise he would have to hang for too long. Despite all the disadvantages and difficulties: This position is nice in any case.
Squatting
The same applies as for standing, except that the active person has to squat a little more. But this position is necessary in alternation with standing, simply because not everyone has leg muscles that allow them to stand for hours in a bent posture.
Fisting positions and combinations
In conclusion, we would like to point out that it is of course possible to change positions. Especially during longer sessions, the passive person will feel the need to change position to relieve pain in the back or joints, or to revive legs that are slowly dying in the sling. As with fucking, you might not want to lose contact with your partner. But how do I get out of the sling without having to pull my fist out of my ass? It’s quite simple: you calmly do a pirouette. The fist turns out of the sling and over the active person, and thus comes to a stand. The active person has to do nothing more than relax his arm and pull his head in. If this is too much effort for you, you can simply pull your fist out and continue in the other position.
Which fisting positions are best?
Each position has its advantages and disadvantages. The decisive factors are lying comfort, relaxation ability, depth of penetration, eye contact and control.
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